A private plan for men with a wedding ahead of them, covering the medical questions nobody asks out loud and the small physical problems that are far easier to settle before the date than after it.
A great many men arrive a fortnight before the wedding with a worry they have carried quietly for years. Sometimes it is a tight foreskin, sometimes an early ejaculation pattern, sometimes nothing more than a fear of the unknown. All of it is easier to handle with time in hand.
This programme sets aside two or three unhurried appointments in the months before the date. The first is a conversation, the second brings in whatever testing or examination is genuinely useful, and the third confirms that anything treated has settled well before the wedding.
Much of the value is simply accurate information. A good deal of what men believe about sex, size and stamina comes from advertising rather than medicine, and correcting that alone removes most of the anxiety men arrive with.
Nothing on this list is compulsory. You choose what you want looked at, and you can stop at the consultation if that is all you need.
Working backwards from the wedding date keeps everything unhurried and avoids treatment during the busiest fortnight.
It is written for grooms, and the tone of the appointment reflects that. There is no lecture and no moralising.
Plenty of men need a single honest conversation and nothing more, and that is a perfectly good outcome.
Related pages for men preparing for marriage, and the wider programme if you want appearance included too.
The questions grooms ask most often, answered without embarrassment.
Ask a QuestionSix to twelve weeks is comfortable. That leaves room for testing, for any small procedure to heal completely, and for a calm review before the date. Men who come with only a week in hand can still be helped, but the choices narrow considerably.
No. Reception uses your first name only, records are kept confidentially, and nothing is shared with relatives without your written consent. You may also ask for messages rather than calls, and that preference is followed.
Only if you want one. A semen analysis is offered where there is a reason to check, and the result is explained carefully, because a single below par report is common and rarely the final answer on its own.
Usually yes. A short course of behavioural technique, sometimes combined with medication, helps most men within a few weeks. It works better when started early, which is one of the main reasons for booking in good time.
Not routinely. It is advised when the foreskin is genuinely tight, repeatedly inflamed or tearing during intercourse. If it is comfortable and retracts normally, no operation is needed and you will be told so.
Yes, if you both want that. Some men prefer one appointment alone and a second together. Either way the discussion stays factual, and nothing is disclosed to a partner without your agreement first.
Speak with Dr. Ashutosh Shah at Elegance Clinic, Surat.
